A big lesson that should be learned about life is that what happens and our behavior matters much more that how we feel.
The Left seems to believe in the opposite: How someone feels is much more important than if they do well. This is why public sports leagues will give trophies to every player if they lose or even if they dont play at all. It does’t matter if they succeeded or not. All hat matters is if people feel good.
That’s that the wrong way. (Please read an article about this topic in the link above)